❤️ First Lifetime: Survival As A First Language
I was born 10.5 lbs in Timmins, Ontario
I grew up in chaos: abuse, instability, and a 3rd-degree mother and father wound.
My nervous system learned survival, not safety.
What I learned:
When a child can’t find coherence in their environment, they build identities to survive it.
These identities follow us into adulthood until we learn how to return to center.
❤️ The 2nd Lifetime: Performance As Identity.
If I can only be popular.
In high school, I reinvented myself — smart, magnetic, high-achieving.
But it was still survival in a prettier outfit.
What I learned:
You can change your life on the outside and still remain disconnected on the inside.
❤️ The 3rd Lifetime: Success As Armour ❤️
I Transformed Into A Corporate Warrior.
I climbed from customer service to leading roles in Fortune 500 companies.
Impactful. Respected. Successful. But internally — starving.
What I learned:
External achievement means nothing if the internal architecture is fragmented.
❤️ The 4th Lifetime: The Body Breaks
The body finally said... No.
My body carried decades of suppression — binge eating, weight fluctuations, labels, and symptoms no one could explain.
Then, for a brief period, I slipped into center without knowing it… and I became a world-stage athlete in one year.
As soon as I drifted out of center again, everything unraveled.
What I learned:
Your body reveals every place you’ve left your center.
If you won’t choose coherence, your body will insist on it.
❤️ The 5th Lifetime: The Collapse - To Mindset Teacher
Mindset Will Save Me!
Then Bob Proctor entered my life. On paper, I was winning.
I dove into mindset, manifestation, identity work.
I left my $200K corporate career, left my 20-year marriage, and rebuilt myself again.
And I manifested it all:
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the dream man
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the glass-walled office
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the million-dollar home
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the Range Rover
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the multiple six-figure business
It looked like freedom.
But underneath, the truth was simple:
Mindset shifted my reality — fantasy but the foundation underneath it was still unstable.
Survival was still running the show.
What I learned:
The difference between chasing what you think you want and receiving what’s truly yours when you’re in center.
❤️ The 6th Lifetime: The Healing - The Endless Seeking❤️
The Endless Seeking
After building my “dream life,” I should have felt free.
Instead, the weight of it all was crushing me.
So I went inward. Deeper than ever before.
$600k of masters and healing designations. Energetics, quantum physics, ancient wisdom, gene keys, human design, psychology. I became brilliant... but not coherent.
What I learned:
Information & education doesn’t create cohesion.
The nervous system does.
❤️ The 7th Lifetime: The Spark❤️
The Collapse Into Truth
My life dismantled again — business, relationship, home, identity.
That collapse revealed something I hadn’t seen before:
I didn’t need to become a higher self.
I needed to return to my centered self — the only version of me my system is built to hold and create from.
That’s when Harmonize With Life emerged.
Not as a concept, but as something I lived, built, taught — by returning to center again and again.
What I learned was simple and undeniable:
Off-center, you force identity and transformation.
In center, your real identity rises on its own.
❤️ The 8th Lifetime: Discovered What Natural Transformation is For Women ❤️
My Authority Reseated
As I moved deeper into my center through Harmonize With Life Method, something unexpected happened.
I stopped forcing transformation.
Stopped chasing breakthroughs
Stopped performing for worth.
I stopped seeking outside of myself... and for the first time in my life, I was leading life, not adapting to it.
I was not surrendering authority to “the universe,” and no longer driven by a body in survival either. That phase was necessary to arrive here. But once my authority came back online, something shifted naturally.
From that place, I saw the architecture of human evolution clearly:
Life isn’t trying to teach you or decide for you.
Every human bump is reorganizing you so you can lead life again.
And your center is where everything finally lines up.
This is why I’m a Cohesion Architect.
It wasn’t assigned or approved by an 'outer authority.'
It was revealed the moment my inner authority reseated.
The Thread That Runs Through It All
Eight lifetimes.
Eight reinventions.
Eight times everything burned down and rebuilt... not because it was destiny, but because I was never taught how to live from my center.
Across every collapse and breakthrough, one truth eventually revealed itself:
Life wasn’t asking me to become more.
It was trying to bring me home... To Center.
Every “new version” I became showed me what wasn’t mine anymore.
What had to fall away.
What my system could no longer sustain.
Once I saw that, everything aligned.
It’s why I can recognize, in real time, the exact pattern pulling someone off-center... whether it shows up in work, health, relationships, or parenting.
It’s why my clients shift quickly.
We don’t dabble in mindset and healing.
We restore the center. That simple.
I didn’t learn this from theory.
I lived the cost of operating from survival... and the inner power that returns when center is restored.
That lived reality is what shaped me into a Cohesion Architect.
You don’t need another version of yourself.
You need the real you... the centered you.
And once you return to center, you stop chasing... not because you gave up,
but because what’s yours unlocks and arrives.
There’s nothing left to pursue. 😉
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